Managing Expectation of all

     Satisfaction is very important in our life. Whatever we do we must be satisfied with our work, unless you are satisfied with your work, you will not get internal happiness. If you are satisfied with your work in any given situation, instead of  not performing well, you will get self confidence from your own heart, which will boost you to equip yourself and achieve next level.

    In present era it is seen that, when student take admission in any college or any institute, during that course duration  instead of giving more attention to their study, people start making castle in the air. They start building unnecessary expectation from themselves. Just student  does not build expectation, but their parents and all the relatives also start building expectation from students. And when ever student meet with their parents or any relatives all does not forget to remind the expectation what they have from student. 

In college teachers or professor also have some expectation from that student. 

     During study period student find only few real mentor who assist him to build the base, and who make student aware about the real world. Since no of real mentor are very less students start following the masses.

Hardly 20% student follow their own mind, 80% follow others mind. You can find only 20% students participating in all the class activities by their own choice. Masses follow 20 %. And remaining students even if they participate they participate by chance not by their won internal choice.

                         It is not bad to dream, because dream is the first stone of huge building of success. But just to dream becomes poison of life, which kills ability to get success. Every successful person had dream, but they just not used to dream but they used to leave no stone UN-turned to convert dream into the reality.

It is one good saying Dream, Dream Dream, Think Think Think and after than Put your thought in to Action Action Action.

When student passed out from their college or course and enter into the real world, where they have to meet expectation of their family,  and they have to meet their own expectation. They are able to realize, how difficult it is to make dream true. By that time, they have already dawdled  his two valuable years . And when he look-back to his past he find nothing except frustration. And some student even commit suicide and some learn the real lesson of life and start working hard and achieve success. Many people start blaming every one around him for his failure, They start blaming parents, they blame school or college they blame system and all the things around him. Some people even do not forget to blame all mighty god, and his own luck.Just they do not blame themselves.

As per my experience expectation are build mainly in middle class family. and in small town. where all the parent are not aware about the fact, as for example rural people consider Engineering and MBA as a big course. They think if their children will pursue that course it can change fate of whole family.So They want to do everything to send their children for that course. But being an MBA from lower grade college I can feel the pain of struggle . I can understand the pain of my family when I am not able to meat their expectation in better ways. After having 4 years of experience and after doing Post graduate from 3 different subjects and working in MNC, I am still not able to meet those expectation which I should have ideally meat just after MBA in 2009.

     Per my experience best solution to come out of this is to apply Maxima and Minima rule in life. Means try to fix maximum how much you want in one year, this maxima should be based on the ground reality. and break -up your goal in various small parts and try to achieve those small goal. Make your parent and all your relatives aware about the fact. Do not keep any one in dark. And try to improve as much as possible. These things will give you satisfaction and in long-term you will be achiever rather than a looser.If you keep on working in slow and steady way there will not be any obstacle in your way.

The above is written based on my personal experience and based on some of my friends experiences.